Why Women Are Not Offended by Lesbian Girls or Women

Why Women Are Not Offended by Lesbian Girls or Women

I don't know if you have noticed, but men are very offended by gay men. They do not want to be mistaken for a gay man nor do they want to be associated with a gay man. They cannot even understand if a women is friends with a gay man. It is just too threatening to their manhood to have anything to do with a gay man, but on the other hand, women are not offended by lesbian girls or women.

Women have absolutely no problem being friends with lesbian girls or women. They do not have a problem with it because women are secure in who they are. They know that they are not lesbians and it is not an issue. The worst thing that could possibly happen would be if the lesbian came on to the heterosexual women for sex or intimacy and then she would have to turn her down. Because she is secure in her sexuality it would probably make their friendship stronger.

However, many lesbian girls or women do not like to be friends with heterosexual women because they are jealous and they do not want their partner to be interested.

How to Meet Women

Tired of meeting the same kind of women, who seem like your type initially but soon show their true colors. Try these tips to meeting a higher quality woman.

DRESS FOR SUCCESS - Wear the nicest clothes that you are most comfortable in. Make sure they are clean and pressed. Arrive showered, shaved and well groomed. You can take a moment to clean under your fingernails, it won't hurt you. Remember, first impressions are key, you can be yourself later.

VISIT or join groups (even if you are not interested, you can try it) such as book clubs, dance lessons, bible study groups, art classes, grocery stores, restaurants at shopping malls, coffee shops or libraries. No bars! You have tried that enough, I am sure.

AVOID ASKING HER OUT DIRECTLY - Many women may be inclined to say no just because they do not know you. Try asking her if she would be interested in joining a group that you will be attending, such as meeting a group of friends for coffee or going to see a band.