Sunday, August 29, 2010

Terri Horman: What Will You Do Now?

Dear Terri Horman,

You have great power my dear. The power that you hold in your hands is immense. You have already used your power to get Kaine out of your life, but you did not know that it would cost you James and Kiara. You did not know that it would cost you friendships and relationships. You did not know that it would hurt your family, friends and the nation.

But now you can use your power to do something good. You can use your power to bring relief.

You hold the power to bring relief to not only the parents of Kyron Horman but to hundreds of thousands of people world wide who are following this story.

Right now, you feel powerless. You feel like your life is spinning out of control. But you can stop the spinning. You can turn your anger, frustration and hurt into something good. You can redeem yourself in front of God and the world.

You can do something that no one thinks you have the guts to do. You can prove to everyone that you are not cowardly, mean and evil. Only you have the power, only you have the control.

You can tell your attorney the truth and ask him to contact law enforcement so that you can lead them to Kyron. If you are not ready to admit how or why, you can save that for later. You don't even need to tell them how you know where Kyron is. Just tell your attorney where Kyron is and he will do the rest. He will continue to fight for your rights. You will be able to see Kiara again.

But best of all, you will have a great weight lifted off of your chest. You will feel relieved. Everyone in the country will know that you did the right thing.

Just do it and God will show you the way.

Your only other option is living in fear each and every moment. Knowing that any day at any moment the police will show up to arrest you. Take the power and control back, make the first move and relieve this pain.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

What I Would Do If I Was Terri Moulton Horman

If I was Terri Moulton Horman, I would not be hiding out in my house waiting for authorities to arrest me and drag my name through the mud.

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Amber Alert Issued For 4 Year Old Missouri Girl Taken From Yard

4 Year old Alisa Maier was taken from her front yard this morning and drove away in a black sedan by a man. She was playing outside with her five year old brother when the abduction occurred. An Amber Alert was issued based on the statements of her 5 year old brother who was the only witness to the crime.

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Kyron Horman Stepmother Tried To Hire Hitman to Kill Husband

Even though there are still people that think Terri Horman is not involved in Kyron's disappearance, more and more evidence is piling up against her. As predicted, the police are slowly leaking out more and more information, hoping that the public will break the case.

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Kyron Horman Stepmother Lied To Investigator

KGW reports today that a reliable source has told them Kyron Horman's stepmother, Terri Horman, has lied to investigators. Exactly what she lied about is unknown. The source stated that Terri Horman refused to answer questions and is now not cooperating with investigators.

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Kyron Horman's Family Statement

Kyron Horman's Family Statement

Kyron's father, Kaine Horman and mother and stepfather, Desiree and Tony Young issued the following statement today:

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Waiting to Hear From Kyron Hormon's Parents at the Latest Press Conference

Well wishers and loved ones are waiting to hear from Kyron Horman's parents. Kyron is missing from his Portland, Oregon elementary school. The evidence in the case has not been shared with the public, but recent events are leading people to speculate that Terri Moulton Horman may be involved in the disappearance of her seven year old stepson.

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Tuesday, June 22, 2010

I've Solved the Kyron Hormon Case: Missing Oregon Boy, Here's My Theory:

UPDATE: Kaine Horman has filed for divorce, a restraining order against his wife Terri Horman and moved out of their home with their 18 month old daughter. News sources state that law enforcement recommended the move and restraining order. Law enforcement must have filled him in on the information they have gathered.

New Information as of 6/23/10: Some bloggers are claiming that Kyron's body was found but that law enforcement wants it to be kept quiet.

Let's all remember that everyone is innocent until proven guilty and my theory is based on my research on the internet and my own intuition.

As you all know, Kyron Horman is a 7 year old boy from Oregon who went missing on June 4, 2010 allegedly from his elementary school, Skyline Elementary.

His stepmother claims that she last saw the boy walking towards his classroom at 8:45am as she left the school.

She then claimed that she did not realize he was missing until 3:30pm when he did not get off of the school bus.

Immediately I was suspicious. Anytime a child is reported missing hours after that actually went missing. Hours lost means it will be more difficult for police and searchers to find the child.

Kyron's teacher said that she reported him absent that day, but was not surprised because Terri Moulton had told her that Kyron had a doctor appointment and would not be at school. Of course there was paperwork for the doctor appointment. The police can find out if Terri did purposely mislead the teacher by requesting June 4 off for the appointment. They can also talk to the doctor to see if there really was a doctor appointment for June 11.

Terri Moulton Horman (who was born in Grass Valley, CA and then adopted by the Moulton's), claimed that the teacher was mistaken because she was hard of hearing in one ear and that Kyron's doctor appointment was actually for the following Friday, June 11, 2010. Terri was setting it up so that no one would be alarmed when Kyron was absent from school.

Terri's son from a previous marriage was at a boy scout camp with his biological father when Kyron went missing.

Terri's 18 month old child with Kaine Horman (Kyron's biological father) was left at a friends house the day Kyron went missing, but Terri did not have any plans that would require her to leave her daughter for the day. Who leaves an 18 month old when there is not a reason to do so?

Terri wanted to make sure that no one was home that day.

Terri's friends claim that she has raised Kyron since he was a baby. The truth is that Kyron's biological mother and father separated when Desiree Young (Kyron's biological mother) was still pregnant.

Terri was one of Desiree's friends. Desiree became ill (possibly kidney failure) and had to travel to Canada for treatment. While she was gone, she left Kyron with his dad, Kaine Horman. Kaine hired Terri to help him and Terri moved into his home with her then 9 year old son, James (who is now 16).

Eventually, Terri and Kaine married and had a daughter together.

The puzzling part is why would she do harm to this beautiful, sweet, loving little boy? It does not make sense to anyone.

Then I found out that her 16 year old son was sent to live with his grandparents earlier this year. He then moved in with his biological father. This was an ah ha moment for me. A light bulb went off in my head.

Now all of the pieces of the puzzle fit together. Something happened regarding her 16 year old son and her 7 year old stepson, Kyron. She then need to get rid of Kyron to save her own son. Terri Moulton Horman had to keep Kyron quiet. Kyron obviously knew something about her son that she did not want him to tell anyone else.

New information as of 6/23/10: Not only did Kyron's uncle Kristian Horman (Kaine's brother) admit to molesting his girlfriends daughter, but he then told law enforcement that he was molested by his grandfather. Terri Moulton Horman probably did not know that she had married into a family of child molesters. This information gives more creed to my theory that Terri's son possibly molested Kyron or Kyron knew something about him that Terri did not want to get out. Terri had to protect her son and keep Kyron quiet even though she always loved him.

No one would suspect Terri Moulton Horman. After all, she had been a loving, devoted step mother. Just that CSI T-shirt gives me the heebee jeebee's, she knows all about crime scene investigations. I guess she may have forgotten about cell phone pings or may be she did not realize that they still ping a tower even if you are not using them at the moment.

Of course, this theory means that most likely Kyron is no longer with us, which is not the result that all of us want. I am so sad that this is the most likely conclusion and my condolences go out to his family.

It is now being alleged that two teachers from the school saw Kyron leaving with his step mother.

Her cell phone pinged on a nearby island (Sauvie) the day Kyron went missing which does not match her story to police.

She was last seen at 8:15am at the school by PTA president Gina Zimmerman. She called the school at 3:45pm to say that he did not get off of the bus. She had 7 1/2 hours to do her dirty work. The school called 911, so the police gave the call a low priority because they thought it was just a child that did not get off the bus at the correct spot.

Terri Moulton Horman did not race down to the school to begin searching for her missing step son. Why not? Everyone else on the planet would have jumped in their car and raced down to the school to start searching, but not Terri Horman, she just stayed at home.

Terri Moulton Horman did not call 911. This is also suspicious. Everyone else would have called immediately and then raced down to the school. She did not, because she knew that Kyron was not at the school. Because she new exactly where Kyron was and still is. I just hope that he is found or that Terri tells where he is as soon as possible.

Bloggers found quips on her Facebook page just days after Kyron went missing stating that she was "hitting the gym". Local reporters filmed Terri Moulton Horman and Kaine Horman leaving the gym. They jumped into their car without giving a comment.

Police officials say that parents of missing children usually cannot even move off of the couch, let alone go workout.

I am sure that the police already have the same theory that I do, but they just cannot say at this time. They are probably trying to find enough evidence to arrest Terri Horman. I sure hope that they find Kyron as soon as possible and that Terri receives the justice she deserves. Does Oregon have the death penalty?

Interesting side note: Terri's second husband adopted her son James. Her second husband, Ecker pays almost $500 a month in child support. Now James is living with his real dad, Tarver. Does Ecker still have to pay child support? Does he pay it to Tarver?

Terri Moulton Horman is not your typical stay at home mom, she married her friends ex husband, is on her third marriage, had children with two different husbands and one step son. Some how she had her son adopted by her second husband and now he has to pay child support to the real father of the child. And now out of three children, the only one that is not her biological child has gone missing just a couple of months after her 16 year old moved out.

As my grandma used to say: Nutty-nut!

Sunday, April 11, 2010

How to Keep Your Kids Safe From Sex Offender Crimes

Everyone needs to keep their kids safe from sex offender crimes. There is no way to tell a sex offender just by looking at them. They may be working at local stores, your neighbors or even volunteering at your child's sports games. Never leave your child alone with anyone unless you know the person is very safe.

CHECK THE REGISTRY - Check online for sex offender registry lists for your area. It should tell you where the sex offenders live in you area, what their crimes were and show a photo of the sex offender. If some of the information is missing, contact your local police station to find out the information. Once you know where the sex offenders live, do not contact them, just avoid them and make sure that your children avoid them. Only have of the sex offenders are caught and put on sex offender registry lists and only half of the ones required to register actually do register, so that means that the register list only represents 25% of the sex offenders that are out on the streets.

DON'T ALLOW YOUR CHILD OUT OF YOUR SIGHT - Why risk your child's life or well being by allowing them to be unattended? It is unfortunate that our world is dangerous, but we have to face reality. Do not leave your children unattended or with adults that you do not know very well. Get to know all of the adults in your child's life. If someone is not very responsive when you are talking to them or they avoid eye contact with you, you should be suspicious. Also be suspicious of adults that seem to go out of their way to spend time alone with your child. Do not trust someone just because they are your relative or belong to your church, never leave your child with someone that you do not know and trust thoroughly.

TALK TO YOUR CHILD - Remind your child that there are bad people in the world. Let them know that no one should touch them or their private parts.

You should also remind your child about the possible dangers of kidnapping and how bad guys may use something such as a kitten or candy to lure them into their car. Even though it is an uncomfortable subject it is important that you regularly remind your child of the dangers.

Let your child know what to do if they become separated from you in public or in a large crowd. Tell them to go to someone that works there or to woman with children for help.

Keep your child safe from sex offender crimes.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

How to Spice Up The Sex With Your Wife Tonight

If you want to spice up the sex with your wife tonight get creative. Even if you are apprehensive about approaching your wife with new ideas for the bedroom, you should give it a try because she may be more receptive than you think. You can turn up the heat to level 1, 2 or 3 and when things get dull again, just spice it up again.


Buy your wife some sexy lingerie. You can surprise her with something that you love or take her with you to pick something out and have even more fun. Just the experience of trying on lingerie for you at the store will make both of you more playful in the bedroom tonight and give your sex life a little boost.

Take your out to her favorite restaurant and wine and dine her. Listen to your wife when she is talking. Get involved in conversations about things that she enjoys. If you really want a hot night in the bedroom when you get home, you should also take her out dancing.

When you get home and see her in the lingerie the first thing that you should say is how beautiful she looks and then tell her how skinny she looks.


Buy some sexy, fun adult toys to use in the bedroom. If your wife is timid, you don't need to tell her about them ahead of time, just surprise her with a new vibrator and drive her crazy. She will want to please you more and your sex life will be spiced up to level 2.

There are so many different directions that you can go with sex toys. You can find edible underwear or toys. You can use whipped cream and chocolate to lick off of each others bodies.


Rent or buy some adult videos to watch with your wife before sex. If you think she won't want to watch them, you can just surprise her with a soft porn film and then try for more at a later time.

Watching a little pornography before sex will help to get your wife hot. She will want to jump on you before the movie is even over. You will make your wife hot and she will want to have more sex with you.

You can try new things every time things get boring or you are not getting enough sex from your wife.

Ask your wife what she wants you to do for her and then do it.

How to Have The Best Sex With Your Husband

How to Have The Best Sex With Your Husband

Have the best sex ever with your husband because you want to.

FOR WOMEN - Learn the natural responses of men and women.

Men are turned on by simple pleasures, wear sexy lingerie, be the first to initiate sex, and plan time for the two of you to spend alone together each week.

Men usually become more affectionate and loving after sex, while women need to have their romance prior to sex. Women can take advantage of the moment and enjoy the extra love and affection that their husbands give them after sex. Wait until after sex to ask your husband to rub your back or make your favorite treat. This is a good time to have your favorite loving talk.

FOR MEN - Learn what women need to easily warm up for sex. Women need to be charmed and romanced. They enjoying talking and snuggling before sex. Do the things with your wife that she enjoys to warm her up for the moment. Take her to her favorite restaurant. Slow dance in front of the fire and tell her how beautiful she is.

Knowing how to have the best sex with your husband will spice up your marriage.

FOR BOTH - Understand that men and women are different and have different needs. Both men and women should make an effort to please each other because sex is beneficial to both. Having sex is good for everyone mentally and physically. Having a great sex life is one of the best things that you can do for your marriage. Enjoy life more beginning with the most important person in your life, your spouse.

Make a point to spend more time with your spouse just enjoying each other. If you are busy, take the time to have a date night at least once per week and make sure that you have plenty of privacy. Also take the time to be romantic and just snuggle on the couch instead of racing to the bedroom.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

How to Know If Your Spouse is Cheating

I will use the term he throughout the article for convenience and because I am a she. I do not want anyone to think that I believe only men cheat because I, of course, know that both sexes cheat.

HE STARTS COMING HOME LATE - You have been married for five to ten years and now all of a sudden he has to work late almost every night. Especially on Friday nights, you know the night when everyone has to work late!

- He can't quite pin point just what is on his mind, but it is something. And he just can't be bothered right now.

HE IS DISINTERESTED IN YOU - He has even stopped complaining about things that you do because he is just not interested at all.

HE IS DISINTERESTED IN THE CHILDREN - He starts to miss events and special occasions because he thinks they are not that important.

- The amount of time he spends on the phone or returning phone calls has significantly increased.

HE APPEARS FRESHLY SHOWERED WHEN HE GETS HOME - He is cleaner than when he left for work when he arrives home.

How to Have More Sex With Your Wife

Have Fun With Your Wife Have Fun With Your Wife

Everyone is different, so this advice may not work in every relationship. But it sure is worth a try because sex is great for everyone. It is beneficial to all humans both mentally and physically.

MAKE HER LAUGH - There is not a better aphrodisiac than laughter. Make a point of having fun with your wife. If you can't think of anything, try renting a comedy movie.

- Women like to be buttered up. Plan a nice evening of dinner out, a play or musical, cocktails after. May be some dancing. After all of that you will be irresistible.

LISTEN - Women like to talk. They also like to be listened to. Paying attention to your wife will make a lot of points with her.

TELL HER SHE LOOKS THINNER - Try something like, "I don't know what you have been doing, but you have definitely lost weight." That should work.

How to Be Sexy For Your Husband

I am sure that the first thing that most of you ladies are thinking is that you need to lose weight to be sexy. I am here to tell you that you do not need to lose weight. Your husband will think you look sexy just they way you are. It is how men are programmed. You need to forget about how you think you look. It does not matter if you do not think you look sexy. It only matters if he thinks that you look sexy. Feeling sexy will also help you to look sexy.

EVENING WEAR - Wear sexy lingerie. Once again, it does not matter if you think that you look fat in it. It only matters he will think you look sexy. Trust me. Wear a short black dress with sexy lingerie underneath. Your body shape, size, weight does not matter. And DO NOT ask him if you look fat in it. Do not tell him you think you look fat! That kind of talk is not sexy.

DAILY WEAR - Wear clothing that fits you appropriately. Wear jeans or pants that fit you well, not too loose and not too tight. I know that there are some men that prefer really tight jeans on women, but we won't go there. Form fitting blouses and shirts are very sexy also. Sexy can be very simple. Jeans with sandals (with a heel) and a form fitting blouse is very sexy.

SEXY ATTITUDE - You need to feel sexy inside so that it comes out in everything that you do. The way you walk, the way you smile, the way you laugh. This is one area where the saying "fake it until you make it" really works. If you do not feel sexy, just pretend that you feel sexy. Once you see the difference in your husband, you will feel sexy.

DO SEXY THINGS - Try to do things that you normally would not do (or may be you already do, I don't know) such as take a bubble bath when he is expected home from work or tell him you are not wearing any underwear at dinner. I know that is not something that women like to do, but men think that it is really sexy. Just the thought of women not wearing underwear drives them crazy.

- Simple things such as dimming the lights, eating by candle light, sitting in front of the fire - all give a sexy appeal. You can be sexy for your husband everyday.

How to Look Sexy Today

Everyone Can Look Sexy Everyone Can Look Sexy

There are many things that you can do to make yourself look and feel sexier today. You do not need to lose weight or get plastic surgery, there are many things that you can change within hours to make yourself sexy.

GET A NEW HAIR CUT - Splurge on a new hair cut for yourself. Let your hairdresser know that you are looking for something that gives you a younger and sexier look.

DO YOUR NAILS AND TOES - You can have a manicure and a pedicure or you can do it yourself. Nothing makes you feel fresh and sexy like getting your nails done.

GET A NEW MAKEUP LOOK - You can get a free new makeup look at the makeup counter at your local department store. You can also do it yourself or have a friend teach you a new look. You can dust your face with a face powder that is darker than your skin and it will give you a faux tan look. It will make you look healthier and sexier.

GET A TAN - Tanning is dangerous and ages your skin. Luckily, technology has brought us a new revolution in tanning. A spray on tan can be done professionally. Spray on tans are long lasting and look good. Or you can apply a tan yourself with many over the counter products. The do it yourself tan is easy to apply and will look good also. Tans are a great part of your sexy look.

WEAR CLOTHES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD - I am not talking about your favorite sweats. Clothes that make you feel like you look the best. Most likely you have them in your closet already, but you have not pulled them out in a long time. Clothes that make you feel like you look your best also make you feel sexy.

HAVE A SEXY ATTITUDE - If you think you look sexy and are sexy, you will be sexy. Sexy is an attitude more than anything else.

How to Make This The Right Time For Sex

If you have been finding yourself saying no to your man, making excuses are putting sex off for a later date or time, may be you need to evaluate your reasons why.

NO TIME - Is there really no time for sex? May be you have just gotten out of the habit of having sex on a regular basis. If so, make the time. Just do it now. Certainly you can put off that load of laundry or doing the dishes.

NO PRIVACY - This may be a little trickier, but couples all over the world find a place and a time to have sex no matter how many children or house guests they have. Certainly your children must sleep at some time. Make a point to be awake the next time they are all sleeping.

YOU JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE IT - This is a state of mind that you can get over. If you "just do it" you will get yourself back in the swing of things. You need to take control of your mind and tell yourself that you want to do it.

How to Save Your Marriage

To save a troubled marriage both partners need to make the effort to change their lives. If you have children it is imperative that you make things work out. Children of divorced parents are devastated and sometimes do not get over it for years if ever. After a divorce you will have no say about what is happening in your child's life when they are with their other parent. Your child may be left with a step parent or boyfriend/girlfriend. Your child may be ignored. Either way a divorce is the worst thing for a child unless there is physical abuse.

PUT YOURSELF IN YOUR SPOUSES SHOES - Try to see things from their point of view even if you completely disagree with their point of view. Listen when your spouse speaks, if you do not like what they are saying, then ignore it. Take the good stuff and leave the rest.

STOP BEING NARCISSISTIC - Open your world up to include other people. Stop thinking only of yourself. You are on a very important team. If other people depend on your team (such as children) it is important that you make this team work.

REMEMBER WHY - There was once a reason why you married your spouse. Try to remember the good times and the reasons why you married your spouse in the first place.

PLAN A GREAT DATE - Plan a date with your spouse that you know they will enjoy. You should enjoy it too even if you are just faking it. Do something that they absolutely love whether it is a romantic weekend away or a day shopping at the mall.

Find The Love Of Your Life

If you want to know how to find the love of your life, the first thing that you want to do is stop looking. If you are desperate to find someone it actual slows up your progress. Continue enjoying your daily life and the love of your life will appear eventually.

DO THE THINGS YOU ENJOY - When you are looking for the love of your life, you want to find someone that is like minded. If you want to find someone that enjoys the same things that you do, then do them. While you are doing the things that you love to do, you will meet people. If you are a jogger, then join a jogging group. If you are a reader, then join a book club. Join your favorite church. Join the local softball league. You will meet like minded people at the places where you hang out.

DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE - When you do meet new people, try to suppress the natural urge to judge them by the way they look, the job, car, clothing, etc. Those outside appearances are not the person inside. Treat everyone as if they are one of your long time friends.

KEEP SOCIAL - Make sure that you continue with your social life. Attend parties, weddings, and events, you never know who you might meet.

DON'T BE NEGATIVE - Not only should you be positive, but you should not talk about wanting to find the love of your life all the time. This can be really annoying and counter productive. You know how to find the love of your life, now just enjoy life until it happens.

How to Keep The Love Alive in Your Life

Everyone needs to focus on how to keep the love alive in their life on a regular basis. If we all did it the world would be a better place.

REMEMBER WHY YOU FELL IN LOVE - Reminiscing about the time that you fell in love makes you appreciate the love that you have today. Get out old photo albums and scrapbooks. Your kids will love to see the two of you when you were falling in love.

- If you ever wonder how to keep the love alive in your life, the answer is spending time together. Plan special nights out doing what the two of you love to do. Even if it is only once a month, it will really keep your love alive.

SMALL THINGS MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE - Holding hands, walking arm and arm, and an unexpected kiss are subtle ways to let your love know that you are still in love. Keep up this physical contact with the love of your life.

TELL OTHERS - When you are speaking of the love of your life only say wonderful things and let everyone know how much in love you still are. This is how to keep the love alive in your life.

How to Escape An Abusive Husband

If you are a victim of domestic violence you need to escape your abusive husband immediately. There is help available and you can be protected.

KEEP QUIET - Do not tell your husband you are leaving. You do not want your husband to find out that you are leaving before you get out, so do not tell anyone. Do not even tell your children until all of you (you and your children) are in safe hands.

- Call your local women's shelter. They will come immediately to pick up you and your children. They will take you to a safe place and your husband will not be able to get access to you. They will also help you with your plans for the future. There is no fee to you for this service.

WHILE YOU ARE WAITING - After you have called the shelter to come pick up you and your children, pack your bags. You do not need to pack everything just enough for a short trip and everything your kids need to feel comfortable, their favorite teddy bear or game boy.

TAKE ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN - Do not leave any children behind at your home for any reason. Take care of yourself and your children today.

How to Give Your Sex Life A Boost

Your sex life only needs more participation from you to be better.

If you want to know how to give your sex life a boost it is as easy as making an effort. Get plenty of rest, reduce your stress and set your mind to it.

ALWAYS TOO TIRED? - Plan ahead so that you have the time and you are not too tired. Go to bed early and set yourself up for success in the bedroom. The dishes and laundry can be put off until tomorrow. Make the time for sex tonight. You will benefit emotionally and physically. You can boost your sex life just by planning for it.

REDUCE STRESS - Too much stress can kill a good mood. Reduce your stress by not dwelling on your issues. Take care of issues that you can control and let go of issues that you have no power over. There is no need to dwell on something that you have no power over. You cannot fix it and the stress is bad for your health, mental well being and sex life.

SET YOUR MIND TO IT - Get your head ready for sex. Mentally prepare yourself. If you are having trouble getting in the mood you can try using videos or other visual stimulation to get yourself ready for sex.

How to Get Your Wife To Want Sex

Make your wife feel sexy by telling her how she turns you on.

Have you been wondering how to get your wife to want sex? You need to think in terms of convincing her mentally and her physical body will follow suit. Complimenting her, being playful and being subtle will help ease her into a more romantic mood.

COMPLIMENTING - Compliment your wife on her physical looks. There are two areas that will get you more points with your wife, weight loss and sexiness. Tell her how sexy she looks. Tell her how she turns you on. You can also make a lot of points by telling her that she looks thinner and she must have lost weight. Don't be fake. Really mean what you say. You need to believe it to make sure that she believes it. You can get your wife to have more sex with you if you are sincere with your compliments.

BE PLAYFUL - Create a fun and light environment. If you are playful, loving and silly, your wife will let her guard down and open up more. Try doing something new and fun to get her attention when she is not expecting it, such as blowing bubbles towards her or serenading her. She will think you are unbelievably romantic. You can also write her little love notes and slip them into her purse. They do not need to be long. A simple, I love you is enough. It will bring a smile to her face at an unexpected time and make her think fondly of you which will lead to romantic feelings toward you when she sees you.

BE ROMANTIC - Be subtly romantic. Take your wife out to her favorite restaurant and then out to something that she loves to do. May be a romantic comedy, play or dancing. She will love it and you. Women are easier to please than you think. You do not need to some riding in on a white horse, but what fun if you did. You can do many small things that your wife will love and will therefore make her more open to have sex with you. Don't come on too strong. Just be natural. Focus on your wife and try to learn about what makes her happy. The happier your wife is, the more sex the two of you will have. Now you know how to get your wife to have sex with you.

How to Have Better Sex with your Husband

Well, I guess we should start with having sex and then build up to having better sex.

If you do not have sex with your husband very much it is time for you to increase the frequency. It is good for both of you. Having sex is very healthy, not only is it good exercise, but it is also beneficial to your health and well being. Do not allow more than 30 days to pass before having sex. You really should increase it to at least once a week. If you are having difficulty getting yourself in the mood try watching a movie such as Dirty Dancing. If Patrick Swayze can't get you in the mood then you may need extra help.

Wear sexy lingerie. Yes, you should definitely do this. Do not worry about what you look like. Your husband does not care if you have gain a couple of pounds. He still likes to see you in lingerie, trust me on this one.

Use your mind and fantasize. Your mind is the best aphrodisiac. You can make yourself climax just by using your mind. Try it, it really works.

How to Spice Up Sex with Your Husband

Your husband will love it if you spice up your sex life.

Knowing how to spice up sex with your husband can improve your marriage. Years of marriage and children can take a toll on your sex life. If sex is not what you want it to be or you do not have it often enough, make some changes that your husband will appreciate.

LINGERIE - Buy some new lingerie. Buy something that your husband will think looks sexy. Don't worry if you think that you look fat or out of shape, your husband will not care, he will appreciate the lingerie and he will not think that you look fat or out of shape. Buy a size that fits properly and wear it. Your husband will love the fact that you are trying to spice up your sex life.

WARM YOURSELF UP - Take the time to prepare yourself ahead of time so that you are warmed up when you see your husband and he sees you in your new lingerie. Your warm up technique is personal and you already know what will work best for you. Whether it is reading an erotic story, fantasizing or watching a movie, take the time to be ready for sex when you see your husband.

PLAN A DATE - Plan a date night once a week so that you and your husband have the private time together and opportunity to have a great sex life. You know how to spice up sex with your husband, now you just need to do it.

How to Create Sex Appeal

You are sexier than you think.

Learn how to create sex appeal and boost your sex life. You are sexier than you think you are. People are probably looking at you in a sexy way more often than you think. Your spouse probably gives you loving looks even when you do not notice. Most of your sex appeal comes from inside. It is how you feel about yourself. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy.

- Think sexy to be sexy. Imagine yourself as a playful carefree young person, no matter what your age. Leave your serious side behind, it is time to have fun with life. As you go through each day, look at each thing that you do as if you have never done it before and you are curious and loving to learn it for the first time. Leave your hectic life behind to have fun and be positive. Positive is very sexy.

SMILE ALL THE TIME - Start smiling all of the time. Smiling makes you and your body feel better and will help you to create the sex appeal that you want. Even when you are faking a smile, it is sending positive messages to your brain. Smiling and laughing will make you feel and look sexier. Sex appeal is something that you have when you are happy, so be happy.

DRESS FOR SUCCESS - Wear clothing that makes you feel sexy. It does not matter what it looks like. Torn jeans can be sexy. The only thing that matters is that you look sexy in your outfit. If there are certain pieces of clothing that get you more attention from the opposite sex, that is a good place to start. If you are getting a lot of attention from the opposite sex, then you can assume that you look sexy in that outfit.

AROMA - Use your undetectable scent to make you more attractive. Humans are attracted to each other by an undetectable scent that tells them who they like. Keep yourself well groomed and freshly showered without using heavy perfumes. Perfume can actually mask your natural scents. You products that have no or a mild scent such as deodorant. You can create your sex appeal naturally.

How to Get Your Wife to Be More Sexual

You can have more sex with your wife if you make her feel sexy.

Have you been wondering how to get your wife to be more sexual? Life, aging and stress can reduce a woman's sex drive. The key to get your wife to be more sexual is to make her feel sexy. Once she feels sexy, the next thing you know, she will want more sex too.

CHARM HER - Do spontaneous sweet nothings for your wife throughout her day. Leave a little love note in her purse. Pick some flowers and put them in a vase for her. Run a bubble bath for her in the evening. These gestures may seem small to a man, but they are huge to a woman. Charming your wife is easier than you may think. It is easier than you think to get your wife to be more sexual.

TELL HER - Tell your wife every day how much you love her and how beautiful she is and how sexy she looks. All three thoughts are important. Words can mean a lot if they are given sincerely. Do not allow a day to pass without telling your wife how important she is to you by mentioning how much you love her. Just mentioning how sexy she is and how much she turns you on will make a big difference and help her to be more sexual towards you.

BUY HER SOMETHING SEXY - Buy something sexy for your wife. If you think it is sexy then she will like it. Buy her some sexy lingerie, some sexy panties, or a sexy blouse. Your wife will really appreciate the fact that you took the time to buy her something sexy. It will make her feel sexy to think that you bought her something sexy. Remember that for women, sexual feelings are mostly in their minds. Convincing her that she is sexy will make you more points than other techniques.

WOO HER - Spend the time to create a romantic evening for your wife. Take her out to the things that she enjoys. Take her out to her favorite restaurant, then out dancing or to a show. Women love dancing so even if you do not enjoy it, make the effort to go anyway. No one will be looking at you so don't worry about how you look when you are dancing, just do it.
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How to Have More Sex With Your Husband Tonight

Have you been wondering how to have more sex with your husband tonight? Spice up your love life with your husband by introducing some new positions, toys, and videos to your bedroom. It will surprise your husband and give your sex life the boost that it needs.
LOOK SEXY - Wear your sexiest lingerie. If you do not have privacy initially, you can wear the sexy lingerie under your clothes and let your husband know what he can expect later in the evening.
A little black dress over your sexy lingerie will help as well.
ACT SEXY - Walk, talk and feel sexy. Even when you are sitting down, you can do it in a sexy way. Cross your legs and bend your foot back behind the lower leg. Sit with good posture, shoulders back, chest out and keep a smile on your face.
INTRODUCE LUBRICANTS - Introduce only a lubricant into your bedroom. Too many new sex toys at one time may be overwhelming for your husband. A lubricant is non threatening and may give you both some added pleasure. There are many lubricants on the market for you to choose from.
INTRODUCE TOYS - Next, try to introduce a toy to your bedroom. Toys and vibrators can be a lot of fun and your husband may warm up to it quickly. Make sure your first toy is a small one.
Knowing how to have more sex with your husband tonight can save your marriage and increase your intimacy with your husband.
NEW POSITIONS - Try a new position. Just say "I think it will be more comfortable if we try it like this." Trying a new position is one of the easiest things that you can do to give your sex life a boost.
You do not need to stand on your head, just a small adjustment in position can make a world of difference.
INTRODUCE VIDEOS - Watch an adult movie before, and during your private time in the bedroom. Watching a movie can relax and stimulate both you and your husband. Watching movies is an inexpensive and fun way to give your sex life a boost. You will find your sex life increasing in a very short period of time if you watch movies first.
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How to Use the Magic Of Making Up to Get Your Ex Back

Use the things that you know your ex can't resist to get him back.

Breaking up can be hard to do, but getting back together can be even harder. Learn how to use the magic of making up to get your ex back.

Remember the good times of the past to bring some nostalgia to your relationship. Think back to the best times and remember the things that your ex enjoyed the most and then try to relive them.


Convince your ex to make plans with you. If they are resistant, mention that you already have so much invested, why not one more meeting.

Tell them that you guarantee that they will not regret it. To seal the deal tell them that you made reservations at his or her favorite restaurant or another place that you know they cannot resist.

If your relationship is right on the edge, it may not take very much to pull it back to your side. Don't rush things or push things too quickly.

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Plan everything in the evening just the way your ex will love it. Remember that you are doing things that your ex enjoys so try not to insert your favorite things. That could be a turn off for your ex if they think that you are still only thinking of yourself.

Focus only on your ex for the entire evening. Anything that he or she wants. It is time to treat your ex like the prince or princess that he or she deserves to be treated. Don't hold back.
Knowing how to use the magic of making up to get your ex back will help you to repair your relationship.


Let your ex know your true intentions. Opening up your heart and sharing your deepest feelings will really help he or she to understand that you really want them back and your are sincere in all of your actions.

Be prepared for the worst, but hope for the best. If your spouse does not want you back be gracious. Do not get mean and nasty, no matter how things go. Your ex allowed you back in for one evening, so appreciate their graciousness by giving yours. Not to mention that you still may have a chance, so do not blow it by blowing up.

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