I am sure that the first thing that most of you ladies are thinking is that you need to lose weight to be sexy. I am here to tell you that you do not need to lose weight. Your husband will think you look sexy just they way you are. It is how men are programmed. You need to forget about how you think you look. It does not matter if you do not think you look sexy. It only matters if he thinks that you look sexy. Feeling sexy will also help you to look sexy.
EVENING WEAR - Wear sexy lingerie. Once again, it does not matter if you think that you look fat in it. It only matters he will think you look sexy. Trust me. Wear a short black dress with sexy lingerie underneath. Your body shape, size, weight does not matter. And DO NOT ask him if you look fat in it. Do not tell him you think you look fat! That kind of talk is not sexy.
DAILY WEAR - Wear clothing that fits you appropriately. Wear jeans or pants that fit you well, not too loose and not too tight. I know that there are some men that prefer really tight jeans on women, but we won't go there. Form fitting blouses and shirts are very sexy also. Sexy can be very simple. Jeans with sandals (with a heel) and a form fitting blouse is very sexy.
SEXY ATTITUDE - You need to feel sexy inside so that it comes out in everything that you do. The way you walk, the way you smile, the way you laugh. This is one area where the saying "fake it until you make it" really works. If you do not feel sexy, just pretend that you feel sexy. Once you see the difference in your husband, you will feel sexy.
DO SEXY THINGS - Try to do things that you normally would not do (or may be you already do, I don't know) such as take a bubble bath when he is expected home from work or tell him you are not wearing any underwear at dinner. I know that is not something that women like to do, but men think that it is really sexy. Just the thought of women not wearing underwear drives them crazy.
MAKE YOUR HOME SEXIER - Simple things such as dimming the lights, eating by candle light, sitting in front of the fire - all give a sexy appeal. You can be sexy for your husband everyday.