If you want to know how to find the love of your life, the first thing that you want to do is stop looking. If you are desperate to find someone it actual slows up your progress. Continue enjoying your daily life and the love of your life will appear eventually.
DO THE THINGS YOU ENJOY - When you are looking for the love of your life, you want to find someone that is like minded. If you want to find someone that enjoys the same things that you do, then do them. While you are doing the things that you love to do, you will meet people. If you are a jogger, then join a jogging group. If you are a reader, then join a book club. Join your favorite church. Join the local softball league. You will meet like minded people at the places where you hang out.
DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE - When you do meet new people, try to suppress the natural urge to judge them by the way they look, the job, car, clothing, etc. Those outside appearances are not the person inside. Treat everyone as if they are one of your long time friends.
KEEP SOCIAL - Make sure that you continue with your social life. Attend parties, weddings, and events, you never know who you might meet.
DON'T BE NEGATIVE - Not only should you be positive, but you should not talk about wanting to find the love of your life all the time. This can be really annoying and counter productive. You know how to find the love of your life, now just enjoy life until it happens.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
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